STOP CORRECTING A MAN ALL THE TIME; YOU WILL K+LL THE ROMANCE IN THAT HOUSE AND HE WILL START SEEING YOU AS HIS MOTHER - PASTOR IREN LECTURES MARRIED WOMEN
Pastor Iren has advised married women on how constantly correcting their partners can affect romance and communication in a relationship.
Speaking during a section on relationship and marriage matters, he urged women to stop trying to tell their partners what to do all the time, warning that excessive correction could change how a man perceives his partner.
“And women, listen to me. Stop trying to tell the man what to do all the time. You will k+ll the romance in that house. A man you correct all the time will start seeing you as his mother. He will start seeing you as his mom. And now you’re wondering where the spark has gone to. You’re correcting him all the time. It won’t work. It will not work.”
He encouraged women to sometimes allow their partners to make mistakes and to communicate their concerns as suggestions rather than instructions.
“And sometimes you must learn to allow him be wrong. You see, suggest, don’t instruct.”
According to him, this approach could also make a man more comfortable listening to his partner.
“If you do what I’m saying, the man will learn to listen to you more. And he will feel safe listening to you.”
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